This is complicated by the fact that it is perfectly possible for a man that is less attractive than a girl to be sexually attracted to her and interested in her as a person (i.e. not overwhelmed by her beauty so much that he doesn't consider her personality). (These complaints always come from women who don't get enough attention from men.If you fall into this category, I suggest you read the other posts.) If men didn't try to sleep with lots of women with no strings attached, or if women didn't want stable relationships, then it is conceivable that women could approach men.When we were logged on the site we received quite a few instant messages.You can chat with women for free and surprisingly the chat messages are not automated on this site.
Right off the bat we were bombarded with chat requests from Asian women, that's the good news.By making it easy for a man, you risk wasting your time and energy on someone who is only interested in having sex with you, or maybe worse, someone who will actually agree to a relationship or even marriage, only to change his mind months or years later when he realizes he wants someone he considers better.Taking the initiative is not a right that men have over women; it is (or should be) a hurdle that women place in front of men to make them prove their interest.If you find yourself having difficulty determining a man's level of interest because "first he said X, but then he said Y," or even if you know exactly what he is saying and are sure he is interested, stop yourself.What a man says is the worst possible indicator of his interest: you need to pay attention to what he does.